Don’t be a Hobby!

[From a conversation with a friend going through a horrible breakup] This is for the babes that are in a relationship but are not satisfied. For the ones there are unhappy, feel unattended, not loved. For the ones that like a guy and try to put his needs above yours… without getting equal time, availability …

Love…

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, …

Dating update.

… Bumble lasted 2 dates… Dating apps are stupid. Plus I realized I actually like DLS. If only I had the guts to tell him. My friends are encouraging me to tell how I feel. But I can’t. Bumble is deleted. I see DLS sometimes. That’s all. Maybe I’ll brainstorm a way to say it …

The daily video

As the person that has and keeps weird relationships, I am sharing now one than even when it’s a bit twisted, I am willing to continue. A while ago… Let me think for a second… Maybe 2 years? I got added by a dude on Snapchat. That was the time I was going through all …

DTR: Dirty Little Secret

There’s this song I love by Zeds Dead, Lights Go Down that describes my thing with this guy I like too much. So much, that I have literally every remix of it on my playlist. If you listen to it, you will understand this blog. Last night, he asked if he could come over. He …

Am I d*ck cursed?

I have a really good friend that I share lots of intimate details with. We both have stories to tell each other every time. We are very sexual. Lately, my stories had been centered in just one guy… She knows my past relationship and believes no boy is worthy of attention. Me, on the other …

I f*cking suck at dating!

I can’t seem to figure out what I’m doing. I’ve tried absolutely everything there is. I’ve played the waiting game, the hard to get game, the slot. I’ve been assertive and distant or even ignored people. Nothing works. I used to say dating sucks but I’ve come to the realization maybe I’m just not good …

The Perfect one

Last year I stumbled randomly upon a guy at the club. We danced, talked and exchanged contacts right after he asked “What happens next?” . My answer was “Now is the time that you go home, and I get to my place.” My five friends know I love other cultures and ethnicities but I have …

The guy that loves me.

While not being able to sleep, I browse through my Facebook just to find something unexpected. During my long ass journey as a single woman, I have met all types of men. There is always good and bad about them. I’m picky now. The guy I married for love, while he was a decent human …

My Safe Place

This is not my typical Tinder story. It is not about a guy I just met couple times. It is about a series of events that helped me cope and balance my emotional health. I would be forever thankful for this guy and all he did for me. He probably never knew how much he …

The “Divorcé”

Previously, I had mention I started dating before I officially got divorced. In my mind a divorced guy would totally understand what I was doing. I got a message from Zac. Initially it was normal conversation until he asked me to go to his house to watch tv and get on his hot tub. I …